As a wife, what is the most tiring day for you? I believe you will agree with me if I say that the most tiring day of our lives is not the day when we are loaded with so much office tasks neither the days that we performed so much household chores. It is when we have unsettled differences with the man who sleeps beside us and that is none other than our husbands. Agree?
I noticed that unsettled dispute with my beloved Husband adds physical weariness to the emotional load I’m carrying. The result, FATIGUE. The solution is simple, right? SETTLE the misunderstanding the soonest possible time. But when is the soonest possible time? Ephesians 4:26 says “let not the sun go down upon your wrath.” So the best time is before going to bed. But for someone like me who has no ability to open up what I feel, it is a big challenge. Most of the time, I just let the problem pass without online blackjack online letting my husband knows what is bothering me. If I am hurt, I cry in secret. I don’t share it with anyone so nobody would know that I am hurting except the Lord. I don’t trust my marital issues with other people because I believe they are NOT their concern. Who knows in the future, the “best friend” is the “worst enemy“. Psalm 118:8 says “[It is] better to trust in the LORD than to put confidence in man.” But when the the issue is settled, the weariness of the body disappears. So it is best that the issue is settled as soon as possible. If not that night, then the next day. Once it is settled, never keep any marks of anger nor grudges and never bring it up again on the succeeding issues.
Do you have the ability to speak up your feelings with your husband immediately or we on the same boat in which we buy some time before settling the issue?